Fault...Blame... Who's is it?!

Is it my fault if someone cannot make life choices and stick to them?Is it my fault if someone cannot make arrangements and stick to them? Knowing that to change them could change the whole situation?Is it my fault if someone cannot align her priorities with her life choices?If someone chooses to have children, don't they choose at that very moment to put those children first!? Before anyone else, until those children need them no more? Is it my fault if someone chooses not to put her child first? Her child who I have loved and cared for for many years?Is it my fault?Am I to blame?Are you?Maybe you're angry at the wrong people...