He has taken what he wanted

You gave him a piece of your spirit when you allowed him to be intimate with you, that is what hurts the most, not that there might not be a long term relationship.He made promises, plans for the future, you allowed him your ultimate trust and he abused it.He takes what he wants from you, and then the relationship dynamic changes.You have been so strong in only wanting the best, only wanting what is absolutely right for you, don't fall into his trap.Don't allow him to keep you trapped in regret and pity.Don't allow him to lower your standards by such a great level; you wouldn't accept substance use from anyone else, why should he be different?Is anyone else THAT important to you that you lower YOURSELF to allow yourself to be involved with them?You are loved, you are worthy of much better treatment than you have experienced thus far.The wait is worth it; you will find true love...